Ideological opposites set a good example

By Chris Ingram

Earlier this week, Kevin Beckner and Tim Euler were inducted into the Rotary Club of Tampa. I was proud to have sponsored both of them as members of the Tampa club, which celebrates its centennial anniversary next year as part of the international civic organization.

Kevin Beckner is a Hillsborough County Commissioner, a Democrat, and the county’s only openly gay elected official. He had spoken at the club earlier in the year and was interested in Rotary, so I invited him to come back as my guest and consider joining.

Tim Euler is the new Head of School at Cambridge Christian School in Tampa, where my girls are students. Tim is an unapologetic Christian conservative and a Republican. Tim moved to Tampa from Orlando over the summer, and we developed a friendship; as with Kevin, I asked him to be my guest at Rotary.

Kevin and I scheduled the day for him to attend his first meeting as my guest weeks in advance of the actual date. I had all but forgotten which day it was when I invited Tim to attend as my guest the same day. When I realized they were coming on the same day, a slight panic set it.

Panic because I wasn’t sure how it was going to go over with these two ideological polar opposites sitting together at the meeting. I considered telling one of them a little white lie to keep him from coming to the meeting on the same day as the other.

I decided to apply Rotary’s “Four Way Test,” which is: In all the things you say or do, ask yourself, 1. Is it the truth? 2. Is it fair to all concerned? 3. Will it build goodwill, and better friendships? 4. Will it be beneficial to all concerned?

If you can’t answer “yes” to all four of the questions, you shouldn’t say or do whatever it is you’re considering.

When I applied the test to the question of canceling one of my invitations, I failed miserably. Having one of them not attended would have been a lie, and would have been unfair to the person affected. (Click here to read the column in today’s Tampa Tribune).

 

Chris Ingram is the president and founder of 411 Communications a corporate and political communications firm, and publisher of Irreverent View. Ingram is a frequent pundit on Fox News and CNN, and has written opinion columns for the Washington Times, UPI, and National Review online. He is the Republican political analyst for Bay News 9, the only 24 hour all news channel in Florida’s largest media market. The opinions expressed here are those of author and do not represent the views of Bay News 9. E-mail him atChris@IrreverentView.com.

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One Response to “Ideological opposites set a good example”

  1. PMcQ Says:

    Dear Mr. Ingram,

    I read your article today. I want to thank you for citing the “Four Way Test.” I know very little about the Rotary Club. I will be using the questions with my grandson. Please extend my appreciation to your organization for an easy to understand way of living and to you for sharing it within your article.

    Sincerely,
    Paula McQ

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